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i've managed to meet up with a very good friend yesterday night, it wasn't long since the last time i saw her, but the thing that amazed me was the fact that she has changed soo much...

i didn't know that breaking up from a relationship can actually do so much to a person, she's totally changed her perspective towards life, she used to be a rather materialistic person, thinking that money can actually do anything, yet now, she's started to learn how to appreciate life the way she wants, to cherish every moment she can grab coz she will never know what's going to be hapenning tomorrow...i've get to understand how she feels..losing the one she loved...they've been together for so many years..yet things didn't worked out...i'm glad she managed to walk through that phase of life whereby i told her it will be a money-can't-buy experience...

her ex's happened to be a pretty close friend of mine too, the point is that i don't really understand why can he give up a 7 years long relationship to end up with a girl he barely knows?somehow...i wish i could understand what was on his mind, as i was not very happy with the explaination he gave me whereby he said he has lost the feeling towards my friend...it was kinda hilarious when he made that statement, i've asked him...how can you just loose a 7 years long feeling????he remained in silence..soon to know that it was all just excuses, unreasonable excuses...

on the other hand, i was pretty glad that things didn't worked out between them, as many may know that he's always been very messed up in his financial terms...i don't want my friend to be marrying him yet had to bare all his debts...after the brokeup...we've heard many rumours about his debts..maybe this was one of the reason that kept my friend's heart dead and not crying over him again...

everyone can recover from a breakup..it is only a matter of time...you should be happy if someone breaks your heart...coz she/he has given you the opportunity to get to grow up knowing that you have a heart...

cheers!!to all the hreatbreakers out there~~~
MAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR HEART'S MISSING AFTER BREAKING SO MANY PEOPLE'S HEART!
:: AMEN ::