damn..i need a photography trip
every night
i can hear my camera crying because he is like so not used...
sorry aunty karen (bukan nama sebenar) ...last saturday wasn't a good time because my cousin was visiting me from singapore..
tak kan i bring him along to pulau ketam right...
why you upload so little photos from pulau ketam only ar?
my whole december's weekend is like all packed up..so many weddings..give ang pao until i feel like getting married also so i can get other people's ang pao...
weekend please come...i didn't manage to give puggy a bath last weekend...
so i'll be like spending double the time to make him cleaner this week...it's vacuum time!

damn...i think i really like my new blogskin..just by looking at it makes me feel happy...
you're keeping me sane in all these insanity

colbie colbie colbie cailat!

christmas is coming!!!
i've got my christmas tree up and shinning...
and i'm looking for the santa hat of zam...
everyone should go listen to colbie cailat's album
her songs are more of a acoustic kinda genre...very nice to listen to especially when you're in an extremely bad mood and wanting to slaughter someone...her music can calm you down...so tenkiu for saving so many people's life from me by making nice music...
her name is like damn difficult to pronounce...cailat...tell me..how do you pronounce it?when i do..it sounded like some kinda canton vulgar words...
okok..i know i am all screwed up inside...
anyways...it doesn't really matter...
i can just pretend to be like really close to her and call her colbie...
hohoho
the album really rocks...
so i am planning to get the original one...
and i think she looks like jennifer aniston at certain angle....



p/s : she's got a new single out, mistletoe

i found a piece of my broken heart on the floor this morning
and i don't know how and when did it happened...

why do i always seem to make the wrong choices...
and putting myself into misery?
am i the problem?or am i not?

the best way to kill your brain...
is to let it think of the same thing over and over and over and over and over again...

mmm...
maybe i am just a loser after all...
a loser in everything...
mmm...
i think i really am a loser...
a loser who can't excel in anything...

p/s : i just realise...a loser like me should just die...so the world can save up more oxygen to people who really needs it...so...can someone just shoot me in my head?

i kept a song that has been playing in my heart all this time
a song i thought i can never write...
it is hard just trying to make sense of myself....

i just finished a movie...which i think it's the most disgsting movie i've ever watched
i just feel like puking my lungs..heart...kidneys...small intestine...stomach...bladder...whatever that is inside this pathetic body of my
and for sure..no more chee cheong fun with chili for the entire week before it reminded me of the freakin mutants eating human flesh
the title of the movie is the hills have eyes II, i have never watched the first sequel
so i have no slightest idea what the movie is all about...
if i knew this was gonna be the result...
i might as well just continue playing diablo II
and not be tempted to watch it when samantha passed me the dvd
damn it...
after watching it...i had to actually watch happy feet just to remind me that the world is still beautiful with singing penguins...

ok lar...at least after watching it...
i know that i can never become a cannibal...
god knows what u ate might have not been bathing for months...
*pui pui pui....

ar...
it's been a week...since i last blogged...
this has been a busy week...
it is not only about work...it is also because i started playing diablo II again
thanks to my coligs lor..tempting me with the game everyday...
shit, hopefully history won't repeat itself
i still remember during uni day, i can keep playing and playing till i don't even remember what class i have through out the entire week
games are addictive lor...it's like though u keep telling urself...after this one i will stop
but then there will definitely be more things coming out to make u continue the bloody game until u die of hunger and exhaustion
my highest record is like playing for a week non-stop...and totally forgot about my classes and assignments...it is really a miracle i manage to graduate lor...
i can't even imagine if my dad knows about this...
he'd prolly say i might as well stop studying in mmu and go work in a cybercafe...
hohohoho
i'm such a screwed-up graduand

so tonight i came home...
trying not to on my pc...
and did some house chores...washed the toilet and clothes...
trying to keep myself really busy....
but my sub-conscious is like telling me i still need to kill blood raven and find the bloody scroll
so now i am...playing diablo again..
damn it...sometimes i just hate myself for being so weak lor
so unable to control myself from temptations...
ar...my golem is down...need to summon another one....
woohooo
blood raven just died...

how long do you wanna be loved?
is forever enough?

sad songs always have a tendency to be played on my poddy whenever i'm feeling down
....................................

oh well
this is life...
and i prolly have another 50 more years to live it...

sometimes...
life is simpler if we don't have any feelings...

我只能低著頭發呆　讓回憶滲透腦袋　漸漸變空白
我把它當作個意外　但內心還想不開　
以為我明白　其實你都還在

我想起了遇見你的時候　想起你眼神中的溫柔
想起了我們第一次牽手　我閉上眼

想起當時你懷裡的顫抖　似乎那麼害怕失去我
然而到後來我什麼都沒有　當你離開的時候

我可以裝作已釋懷　他對我也算關懷　他看不出來
我知道這樣不應該　在他身上找依賴　
算不算是種出賣　因為你一直在

我想起你親吻我的時候　想起你眼神中的沉默
想起了我們平靜地分手　我閉上眼

想起當時你每一個承諾　把你整個心都交給我
然而到後來我什麼都沒有　越是沒有你越是心痛

a mother's journey

Racing barefooted after kicking off her flip-flops, Cyndie pushes her son Derek Madsen, 10, up and down hallways in the UC Davis Medical Center in Sacramento on June 21, 2005, successfully distracting him during the dreaded wait before his bone marrow extraction. Doctors want to determine whether he is eligible for a blood stem cell transplant, his best hope for beating neuroblastoma, a rare childhood cancer, which was diagnosed in November 2004.


Cyndie French, embraces her son, Derek Madsen, 10, on July 25, 2005, after learning Derek needs surgery to remove a cancerous tumor in his abdomen. The emotional impact is taking its toll on her. “How can anyone maintain a nine-to-five job and do this?” she begins to wonder.


Derek Madsen, 10, gets a soothing massage from his mother, Cyndie French, at her Sacramento nail and tanning salon.. "I’m going to do whatever it takes to make him happy, to see him smile." Cyndie says. A single mom of five, Cyndie had to give up her salon at a financial loss to care for her dying son.


Derek playfully taunts his mother as Cyndie tries to coax him down from a wall outside the UC Davis Medical Center in Sacramento on July 27. They are there to admit Derek for cancer surgery the following day.Cyndia, who understands Derek’s emotional meltdown before procedures, spends hours getting him in the door of the hospital.


Shortly after his 11th birthday and Cyndie’s 40th, Derek is comforted by his brother Micah Moffe, 17, left, and mom Cyndie, right, as he gets a tattoo in preparation for radiation therapy on November 30, 2005.. Micah often accompanies Derek to treatments even though his schoolwork suffers.


On February 6, 2006, one of Derek’s cancer doctors recommends Cyndie contact hospice workers. She doesn't tell Derek about the conversation, but retreats behind a closed door at home to cry. "I don't think it's important to tell him," she says. "Why? What for?“ Sensing her sadness, Derek tries to cheer up his mom.


Realizing that Derek may never have an opportunity to get his driver's license, something he's told her he is anticipating, Cyndie French defies the rules and lets him drive up and down their street in West Sacramento. On the same day, Feb. 9, 2006. Cyndie met for the first time with hospice workers, and learns there is little time left for Derek.


Derek is tearful as Cyndie tries to reason with him at the UC Davis Cancer Center on Feb. 14, 2006. She and Dr. William Hall argue that Derek should have a series of radiation treatments to shrink tumors spreading throughout his body and alleviate his pain.. "Derek, you might not make it if you don't do this," Cyndie tells her son. Derek fires back: "I don't care! Take me home. I'm done, Mom. Are you listening to me? I'm done."


Cyndie always tries to have something at hand to take the sting out of her son, Derek's doctor appointments. On March 8 after undergoing radiation treatment, they make the most of a dollar can of Silly String - and Cyndie then meticulously cleans up every bit of the stuff from the ground.Cyndie is a big fan of the Dollar Store.


Cyndie consoles her best friend, Kelly Whysong, left, on April 24, 2006, Fearing Derek's time is near, Cyndie wrote a letter to Derek about how brave he's been during his battle with cancer. She reads it to her youngest son repeatedly, hoping he can still understand.


After placing a flower beside her son’s head, a sobbing Cyndie drops to the floor on April 25, as her best friend, Kelly Whysong, left, and another friend, Nick Rocha, comfort her. Derek is too weak to acknowledge his mother’s presence as she keeps a 24-hour vigil by his bed.


Derek has a final burst of energy after days of Cyndie keeping vigil at his bedside. She helps her anguished son walk on April 26. A cancerous tumor has distended Derek's stomach so far that his pants no longer fit. Another tumor in his brain impairs his eyesight making navigation difficult inside their rental home.


Derek refuses to take pain medications because he fears further damage to his organs. He rages at his mother on April 28, blaming her for not making him healthier. "You have to calm down and help me help you," Cyndie says.


On May 1, after days of little sleep while caring for Derek, Cyndie confronts longtime family friend “grandpa” Patrick Degnan, about whether he'll be able to help with rent and funeral expenses as Derek is caught in the middle. Cyndie hopes to set up a non-profit organization so families don't have to endure the same financial struggle and chaos they have experienced. “I just wish that some of the percentage of money that goes to cancer research can be diverted to families going through this because many people will never benefit from the research,” says Cyndie.


Derek kisses his mom at the Relay for Life benefit, as his 6-year-old sister, Brianna, stands by. Wanting to contribute something to the cause and to “give back,.” Cyndie recruited volunteers for the benefit. Before the race, Cyndie speaks to the crowd about her pride in her son’s bravery during his battle with cancer.


Cyndie holds Derek on May 8. He is on medication that hinders his speech and keeps him awake at night. Except for a few minutes while hospice nurses are with him, Cyndie spends nearly every moment of the day at his side.."I was exhausted beyond belief but I had to do this. He would call my name and always expects me to be there," Cyndie said.


In an effort to get Derek outside, Cyndie wheels him through the front door passing by artwork and cards given to her son by classmates at Bridgeway Island Elementary School. “Just like a newborn, he needs to get out and get some air,” she says. It was his last trip outdoors.


Cyndie French fights her emotions May 10, as she prepares to flush out Derek's catheter with saline solution before hospice nurse Sue Kirkpatrick, left, administers a sedative that will give the 11-year-old a peaceful death. "I know in my heart I've done everything I can," Cyndie says.


Cyndie rocks her dying son as the song, "Because We Believe," plays on a cd. She sings along with Andrea Bocelli in a whispery voice. “Once in every life/There comes a time/We walk out all alone/And into the light…” From left, family friends Ashley Berger, Amy Morgan and Kelly Whysong offer comfort as Cyndie tells Derek, "It's OK, baby. I love you, little man. I love you, brave boy. I love you. I love you.“ Derek died soon after in his mother’s arms on May 10, 2006.


Cyndie leads Derek's casket to burial with assistance from her sons Anthony Moffe, foreground, Micah Moffe, opposite him, and Vincent Morris, who is not visible, as well as several friends. "I will forever carry your memory in my heart and remind others to give of their time, energy and support to other families like ours," Cyndie says at the funeral. Derek was buried in Mount Vernon Memorial Park in Fair Oaks, California, on May 19, 2006.

hooray!
the weekend is coming!
after i've started working in arachnid, time really flies...........................
ei.....is not a freakin metaphor ok...TIME REALLY FLIES!!!
anyways...after like 5 months of absence...i am finally watching a movie!!OMG OMG OMG
can you believe that the last movie i watched was transformers?
i feel so outdated...and outdated makes me feel inferior...

so....
i was very kiasu today and took my lunchtime to go all the way to one u to get the tics...
still not really sure what the movie is all about
but since there is like michelle pfeiffer and claire danes * spells HOTNESS....
the movie will definitely be nice...
gandalf is in it too...so no worries...
more about the movie click here
i am so excited now...coz i am going to the cinema tomorrow...woohooooo~!

and i'm gonna watch 30 days of nights
i like vampires...and always thought that i will make one helluva yao yeng vampire...
remember van helsing?the count dracula is like my idol lor...
the way he speaks...can fly some more...
if i'm a vampire i can fly to work...
save petrol and avoid jam...damn it..so nice...

ok lar...
i am talking cock again...
i am going to take my bath...

yeah!
1st post of november...
it doesn't mean anything though...since i'm waiting for all the food to digest in the stomach before i go to sleep...
might as well just scribble something here

i've been thinking so much lately...
way too much of what i usually do...
and the conclusion i have after all those thoughts are......
don't think so much and just live your life the way u want...
just talk cock sing song ( damn! i like this )

did i ever mentioned when i was in high school...or maybe primary...
i've always wanted to be a rapper!
there..........like p diddy ( what a stupid name ), jay z, mike shinoda, bone thugs, tupac
this is like a dream that will never come true coz i can't even construct a proper sentence...
so the best i should do is just talk cock sing song ! ( damn! i really like this! thx jook )

aunty karen ( bukan nama sebenar ) has decided not to buy her camera coz she needed the money to go to laos...so no more pulau ketam trip this coming saturday....ok lar...can sleep till noon...
wei..go laos also need chun camera to take chun pictures u know......
if keep on dragging like that u'll prolly end up buying canon 500D...which will be launched during mid 2010 ( konon )

liew's pc is infected with some stupid viruses that's trying to infect my pc too by sending image files through msn with messages like dude....bla bla bla bla...
she'll never call me dude lar....such stupid viruses....
no wonder they fail to conquer the world....
losers....

ok lar...i'm going to sleep liao
before i write more nonsense...