what does it takes?

what does it takes to make a relationship last?

two hearts intertwined?uh uh...not good enough

a lot of tolerance from the both party...you know..it ain't easy...for 2 person of different lifestyle..different habits to be together...there's definitely something about each other that you wouldn't like yet too afraid to say it out...maybe at the very beginning...love is soo strong that you will be blinded by it...and you will not realise the flaws that has been around ( yeah..no one's perfect...if you love that someone...you've gotta deal with it...you'll be much happier this way )
you've gotta learn how to tolerate...for me...i think it's the best virtue to learn in a relationship...everytime before you wanted to start a fight..think of the things that he/she has done for you...the things that has touched you so deeply...just find a way to stop the urge to start a fight...we hear bad things in a fight...things that aren't supposed to be heard...words can hurt you deep down into your bones...and it can never be wiped away...you're not a hero by hurting someone else's heart...you're in fact a loser...especially if you've hurt the heart of the one person that you've loved soo much...

so...for peeps out there who've hurt someone's heart...go apologise...do something to save the relationship...if you still think that it is worthwhile...

* and oh ya... for those who are trapped in this misery...feel free to call me on a non-tollfree line...+6012-2069207...at least listening to my silly voice will cheer u up a lil'...

cheers...nice day to everyone